The honeymoon phase doesn't have to disappear!
At what point do you move from the ‘newlywed’ phase into the ‘married couple’ stage??
Sean and I have been married for 6 months now, but it really does feel like a lot longer (in a good way)! We’ve learned a lot from these first 6 months that have allowed our relationship grow and grow each day.
Here’s a few newlywed tips from one husband & wife duo to the next!
Save Money
Remember, your money isn’t just yours anymore. If you decide to go to TJ Maxx and buy a bunch of clothes (guilty as charged), you have to keep in mind that you should probably let your husband/wife know too.
Sean and I create monthly budgets for ourselves that are broken down into categories. Rent, groceries, car expenses, utilities and even entertainment! Whenever one of us spends, we put it in the budget. This way, we never feel guilty about our spending and are always on the same page with one another.
Since we’re saving money for a house right now, we also budget our savings too. Yes, this means a few less TJ Maxx visits for me, but totally worth it for our future!
Break the Routine
I’m someone who loves a routine and I’ve learned that in marriage, it’s ok to be spontaneous and change things up every once in a while!
Go on random date nights, get that cheeseburger on a Tuesday night, plan that trip you’ve been talking about for ages. DO IT ALL!
It’s the little things that add up to the most special memories. After all, marriage is for life. Don’t you want your life to be exciting?
Compromise
I fell for a very stubborn man because well, he’s exactly like me. We often debate, challenge one another and eventually come to a compromise.
Who’s going to pick dinner today? Switch off every week!
I want to go on a girl’s trip? He can plan a guy’s trip next month!
Bachelor on TV tonight? Basketball tomorrow night!
Compromise is the key to a healthy and happy marriage. No matter how stubborn you are, you can always find a middle ground.
Love Unconditionally
Marriage is built on love and the most important tip we have is to keep that love alive!
The way we love changes every day. Love languages differ from person to person too.
I love little gifts and surprises, so when Sean gets me flowers I know he’s indirectly telling me that he loves me. Sean enjoys the little things like when I grab his hand, so I make sure to give him small reminders that show my love for him.
Remember that the way you receive love may be different that how your partner does.
Marriage is seriously the best thing ever. I love Sean with all my heart, and can’t wait to be newlyweds forever and ever!
Always,
Alina Ann
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